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Classic is free for good. VIP and VIP+ add unrestricted messaging, advanced search and more visibility, and every plan length is listed below with the total you pay.
Classic
Free for good
No card required
- A full profile and browsing for everyone
- Daily match suggestions
- Replies to messages from VIP and VIP+ members
- A limited number of messages a day
- Free ID verification and activity badges
- Unrestricted messaging
- Advanced search filters
- See who likes you
VIP
$260.19 billed once for 12 months, about $21.39 a month
12-month plan, per week: £2.99 GBP · €2.99 EUR · A$5.99 AUD · C$4.99 CAD · $5.99 NZD
- Everything in Classic
- Unrestricted messaging
- Advanced search filters
- Members-only chat rooms
- Private group chats for up to 50 people
- Rewind your swipes
- See who likes you
- Exclusive matches
- Top of the match stack
VIP+
$338.41 billed once for 12 months, about $28.20 a month
12-month plan, per week: £3.99 GBP · €3.99 EUR · A$7.99 AUD · C$6.49 CAD · $7.99 NZD
- Everything in VIP
- Exclusive matches
- Priority placement for your messages and likes
- Top of the match stack
- Boost and Super Match, available as add-ons
Every plan length
Longer plans cost less per week. The table shows the total you pay for each length, with the weekly equivalent underneath, in each of the six currencies this site sells in.
| Plan length | USD | GBP | EUR | AUD | CAD | NZD |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 week | $19.99$19.99 a week | £14.99£14.99 a week | €16.99€16.99 a week | A$24.99A$24.99 a week | C$19.99C$19.99 a week | $24.99$24.99 a week |
| 1 month | $42.81$9.99 a week | £29.96£6.99 a week | €34.24€7.99 a week | A$64.24A$14.99 a week | C$51.39C$11.99 a week | $64.24$14.99 a week |
| 3 months | $102.73$7.99 a week | £64.16£4.99 a week | €77.01€5.99 a week | A$141.30A$10.99 a week | C$115.59C$8.99 a week | $141.30$10.99 a week |
| 6 months | $128.31$4.99 a week | £102.60£3.99 a week | €102.60€3.99 a week | A$205.46A$7.99 a week | C$179.74C$6.99 a week | $205.46$7.99 a week |
| 12 months | $260.19$4.99 a week | £155.91£2.99 a week | €155.91€2.99 a week | A$312.34A$5.99 a week | C$260.19C$4.99 a week | $312.34$5.99 a week |
| Plan length | USD | GBP | EUR | AUD | CAD | NZD |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 week | $22.99$22.99 a week | £15.99£15.99 a week | €17.99€17.99 a week | A$26.99A$26.99 a week | C$22.99C$22.99 a week | $27.99$27.99 a week |
| 1 month | $51.39$11.99 a week | £34.24£7.99 a week | €38.53€8.99 a week | A$72.81A$16.99 a week | C$59.96C$13.99 a week | $72.81$16.99 a week |
| 3 months | $128.44$9.99 a week | £77.01£5.99 a week | €89.87€6.99 a week | A$179.87A$13.99 a week | C$154.16C$11.99 a week | $179.87$13.99 a week |
| 6 months | $154.03$5.99 a week | £128.31£4.99 a week | €128.31€4.99 a week | A$256.89A$9.99 a week | C$231.17C$8.99 a week | $256.89$9.99 a week |
| 12 months | $338.41$6.49 a week | £208.05£3.99 a week | €208.05€3.99 a week | A$416.62A$7.99 a week | C$338.41C$6.49 a week | $416.62$7.99 a week |
Plans of 1 week, 1 month, 3 months and 6 months renew automatically until you cancel. The 12 month plan does not renew. $ is the US dollar in the USD column and the New Zealand dollar in the NZD column. See the Terms & Conditions for the details.
Questions about pricing
What does a free account include?
A full profile, browsing, daily match suggestions and free ID verification. You can reply to any message a VIP or VIP+ member sends you, and you can send a limited number of messages a day.
Can I cancel whenever I like?
Yes. Plans of 1 week, 1 month, 3 months and 6 months renew automatically until you cancel, and the 12 month plan does not renew.
Will the charge on my bank statement show the site name?
No. Billing is discreet, and nothing on your statement names BdsmMatchFinder.
What is the difference between VIP and VIP+?
VIP adds unrestricted messaging, advanced search filters, members-only chat rooms, private group chats and the list of who likes you. VIP+ adds exclusive matches, priority placement for your messages and likes, and a place at the top of the match stack.
Are Boost and Super Match included?
They are add-ons for VIP+ members, bought separately. A Boost promotes your profile to active members nearby for a while. A Super Match sends a highlighted message that the person you send it to sees first.
Which currency are the prices in?
The tables above show every plan length in US dollars, pounds, euros, Australian dollars, Canadian dollars and New Zealand dollars, with the total you pay next to each price.
Ready when you are
Joining is free. Take your time, and upgrade only if you want the extras.